Journalist Writes Lilian An Open Letter, Says She Never Loved Ubi (Read)

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Saturday, 31 December 2016

A journalist, Chris Ayo Joseph in
an open letter to Ubi Franklin
and his estranged wife has said
the couple lacked love especially
on Lilian’s side. What he wrote;
“I shared this a while back in
one of my post; it’s worth
repeating again.
______________________________
Honestly, I really don’t want to
believe Ubi Franklin’s marriage to
Lilian Esoro is over, seeing he
still got his wedding ring on, and
despite Lilian yanking off
“Franklin” from her Instagram
profile name and deleting all
Ubi’s picture. Obviously, there’s
a message she’s trying to pass
across to the public. But
honestly the public don’t care.
WE DON’T CARE.
________________________________
Lillian, can you be matured for a
minute and stop letting the
public into your matrimonial
issues?
Apparently, so much has been
said online about Ubi Franklin &
Lilian Esoro’s marriage hitting
the rock; some blaming the wife
while others pointing fingers at
the husband. But please permit
me to share my honest opinion
on this matter. I just hope I
don’t get bashed for airing my
opinion.
_______________________________
Having been around women,
here’s what i know about them.
Women are die-hard lovers.
Trust me. They love more than
we men do. Apparently, I’ve
come to understand that when a
woman truly loves a man, he
really doesn’t need to fight hard
to win her over. I’m not saying
the man has to be perfect, No!
But If the woman loves the man
that much, she would cover up
so many things for him and also
believe in him.
________________________________
Having said that, without little or
no experience about marriage, i
might not be the right person to
address this issue, but to my
own little understanding, when
you truly love someone, the kind
of perseverance you have with
them will totally be different. You
as an individual will always play
reasonable in every part in their
lives. Now, talking about
marriage vows being exchanged
at the alter of God, permit me to
ask this simple question.
________________________________
Why should real Christians go to
the alter of God in the first place
when he/she knows there’s no
such thing as genuine love in
their heart but selfish desires?
So, you marry a person you
don’t love? A person you don’t
respect?
Because If you respect your
partner and the alter where the
name of the Almighty God is
called, you can’t come and make
promises to mere humans and
forget about it all; most
especially now that a little child is
a product of your matrimony.
________________________________
Like I’ll always say, marriage
takes both people being willing
to work through the issues. A
marriage only works if you’re
willing to work for the marriage
and as well putting God first
because God is Love.
So Lillian, please permit me to
say this with all due respect..
“Your marriage wasn’t based on
love my dear” and i honestly
think you both don’t love
yourself that much.
________________________________
Because if you do, prior to your
wedding I’m very sure there are
behaviours that are evident if
you have taken enough time to
get to know your husband.
Certain attitudes and habits of
his should not be a surprise,
because when you made those
commitment to your husband,
you were committing to his
whole being. It’s rare that people
turn into a new person after
marriage.
_______________________________
So if your husband has
something that bugs you, more
than likely it bugged you prior to
jumping the broom, now is the
time you must deal with it. If it’s
really wearing you down,
communicate how much it is
affecting your relationship with
him and see there is a
compromise between you both.
Accepting defeat or divorce is a
no no at this point for you both,
and as you know love heals all
wounds.
_____________________________________
On a final note, i think it’s high
time you both take a break from
posting your family issues on
social media and take the time to
pray for divine direction from
God, that’s what true Christians
should do. Allow the will of God
be done. It’s my prayer that God
heals you both fast. Can’t wait to
see you both hold hands
together again at public events.
Stay Blessed!
#Myopinion #itsNotOver
#itCantBeOver
#ISayNoToDivorce”

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