Whats that saying about
being battered but not
broken? Toke Makinwa
might be taking the marital
plunge again after all.
The popular OAP who has had
mostly horrible things to say
about her marital experience »
from her 18-month marriage to
fitness trainer, Maje Ayida, says she
just might give marriage another go.
Speaking during a Chat with
Encomium magazine, the 31-year-
old made it clear that she is no
longer bitter about her failed
marriage and that anything could
happen.
When asked if she could give
marriage another shot, she said, “It
was a journey, we all go through
different stages, we learn from
them.
“Marriage is a beautiful thing. Next
time we would be talking, I might be
a married woman, who knows. Life
is a journey. You are allowed to
grow, it is a journey of growth, and
be open, do what you are supposed
to do when you are supposed to do
it so that you can learn from your
mistakes, become who you are
supposed to be.”
Speaking on her perception of
marriage, she said, “It is a beautiful
institution. I am not coming from a
bitter place, you would accept what
happened.
“For me, it might be a marriage, for
the next person, it might be a sick
child. The most important thing is
what you do with what you learnt
from the situation.
“You are allowed to grow, it is a
journey of growth, and be open, do
what you are supposed to do when
you are supposed to do it, so that
you can learn from your mistakes,
become who you are supposed to
be.”
Speaking further, she said, “No one
should see that your life is not
perfect but I am here to change
that. People should see you in your
worst, which is how they can
appreciate your success story.
People should see you when you
are down and under because you
would still come up.
“If you reach the bottom, there is
only one place to go which is the
top. We need to eradicate shaming
people to silence, most especially
women. Women are held in high
esteem.
“You can’t show to the world that
you are heartbroken, you can’t show
to the world that your marriage is
not perfect because people would
look at you and think there is
something wrong with you. But
there is nothing wrong with that
person.
“She is walking through life. She is
becoming what she is supposed to
be. It is important that we unmask
ourselves, let go off this tradition
because people die in silence. There
is more to life than the
Makinwa's recently released must-
tell book, "On Becoming" » ,
revealed the hell she endured in her
marriage since finding out about
her husband's betrayal in
impregnating his longtime girlfriend,
Anita Solomon.
Makinwa only recently officially
divorced her husband over adultery,
cruelty and irreconcilable
differences.
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